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| 15 JAN 2011 at 8:37am |
endfire79Commander


Posts : 1315 Joined: 25 JAN 2005
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By bayonetbrant
my quip about my first marriage these days is that it was a "starter marriage" - much like a starter house - that gave me a lot of insight into what I am/am not willing to put up with when married.
^ It's a sad possibility these days. Makes me want to live a few years with anyone i hang onto long enough in the future before taking the plunge.
Jarhead, get all the support you need from your close friends, family, even religious services. Take care of business but get out there and do what you enjoy doing most, tomorrow is another day...
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| 15 JAN 2011 at 9:07am |
MarkShotCommander


Posts : 2935 Joined: 3 MAR 2004 Location: US
Status : Offline | Jarhead & Bushman,
We had a thread about gaming and wives in the General Gaming forum about six months ago. I was surprised to find out how many of you are divorced despite the fact that the numbers were consistent with the statistics generally published. My last girl friend break must have been around 1980 and I've been married coming up on 30 years now. So, I cannot say I really understand the experience of divorce.
Still I am sad to hear of your troubles.
Pain in life comes in many different forms of that I have experience. Sometimes reflecting on the past and pondering the future can make the present a lot harder. When things get too intense, forget about tomorrow and just focus an making it through the next 5 minutes. Do that enough times and the Sun will come up again.
Take care.
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| 15 JAN 2011 at 12:22pm |
GJKCenturion


Posts : 744 Joined: 1 FEB 2006 Location: US
Status : Offline | Semper Fi Marine. I know how pride and ego are built into the honor of being called a Marine but I also know about crawling into a corner and just weeping openly. I know about looking ahead and seeing emptyness and darkness and wondering how or why or if. I know about saying goodbye to children and feeling their tears well up inside of me as tears begin to run down my boys small, precious cheeks. I know about missing GOD and wondering if I matter. I know, I do know that you wonder and you wonder how it will be fixed or how it ever can be again.
Be strong, stay smart and take comfort, you are not alone.
"Fat, drunk, and stupid is no way to go through life, son."
-Dean Vernon Wormer
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| 15 JAN 2011 at 4:43pm |
airboy45Centurion


Posts : 780 Joined: 12 NOV 2009 Location: 0
Status : Offline | Sorry things are tough. Hope things get better soon.
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| 15 JAN 2011 at 5:51pm |
GusingtonGeneral


Posts : 18089 Joined: 16 AUG 2004 Location: US, USMA
Status : Offline | e4, Bushman and Jarhead...I've had pain and heartbreak like what you've all described. Despite what you may be feeling now...it does eventually get better and it does make you stronger. Stay strong.
I'm glad my character uses a shield because I may be taking a bashing here soon.
- Rayfer

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| 16 JAN 2011 at 9:09am |
critterCommander


Posts : 1170 Joined: 7 APR 2004 Location: US
Status : Offline | Get drunk and listen to this. worked for me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6I0FOMuA0aU
Will get better Jar. You know it will.
You know what's sad? My first thought was, "Gah! She overcooked the bacon!" - Martok
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| 16 JAN 2011 at 9:49am |
BismarckColonel


Posts : 4434 Joined: 31 MAY 2001 Location: US, Wisconsin
Status : Offline | Sorry guys; don'y let things get you down.
Things like this should remind me and all other happily married men how lucky we are. I've been married for 35 years and tend to take Angela for granted. That's bad and stupid. The woman is a godsend. I'll go hug her now.
Jim Cobb, Ph. D. Adjunct Faculty, Cardinal Stritch University 

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| 16 JAN 2011 at 10:05am |
KeunertCommander


Posts : 2364 Joined: 22 MAR 2006
Status : Offline | Bismarck hugs Angela!
this will be big news in germany.
I can stand brute force, but brute reason is quite unbearable. There is something unfair about its use. It is hitting below the intellect. Oscar Wilde

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| 16 JAN 2011 at 11:12am |
SmuckatelliColonel


Posts : 7965 Joined: 8 JUN 2004 Location: US
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Keunert
Bismark hugs Angela!
this will be big news in germany.
Good play of words Keunert.
@ JH, you probably haven't been through worse, but you have been through multiple bad experiences. Each one has made you stronger, don't let this pull you down and don't get mad at your Ex. Tomorrow is another day, you need to get on with your life, there are too many good things that you can do for people.
OT, Smuckette is doing okay with the Colt, she needs to work on her stance, she believes that the rifle is easier to shoot than the pistol.
So, all things being fair, Tomas & Anna want to start working with a pistol. Any recommendations on a 22LR pistol that they can operate?
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| 16 JAN 2011 at 12:03pm |
MarkShotCommander


Posts : 2935 Joined: 3 MAR 2004 Location: US
Status : Offline | Yes, everyone seems to agree that things will get better with time.
I think you will know when you have overcome the pain, when you can look back have some amusing stories to tell. I have amusing stories about open heart surgery and the ICU among other points in my life. I can assure that I wasn't laughing at the time, but it is now looking back.
Hang in there and one day you'll be able to find the humor in the current predicament, and on that day you will be healed.
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| 16 JAN 2011 at 12:08pm |
ActionJackColonel


Posts : 7885 Joined: 19 SEP 2005
Status : Offline | OT, Smuckette is doing okay with the Colt, she needs to work on her stance, she believes that the rifle is easier to shoot than the pistol. So, all things being fair, Tomas & Anna want to start working with a pistol. Any recommendations on a 22LR pistol that they can operate?
Well right she is but pistol shooting is where it's at. For just plinking and beginners I'd recommend the Ruger semi-auto with the bull barrel. I've had mine for going on 35 years now and although there are some others that shoot rings around my pistol, like my father's High Standard, I won't ever let it go. I understand the Ruger MkIII is even better. I bet their .22 revolvers would be an even better investment in developing good pistol shooting skills. Trigger control and sight alignment which is the reverse of rifle marksmanship.
"Government is the great fiction through which everybody endeavors to live at the expense of everybody else." Frederic Bastiat 1801-1850

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| 16 JAN 2011 at 2:30pm |
Electric_StrawberryCenturion


Posts : 226 Joined: 6 JUN 2006 Location: US
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Bismarck
Sorry guys; don'y let things get you down.
Things like this should remind me and all other happily married men how lucky we are. I've been married for 35 years and tend to take Angela for granted. That's bad and stupid. The woman is a godsend. I'll go hug her now.
It takes a wise man, Bismark, to really appreciate what he has. Congrats and I'm sure your wife appreciates your insight ...or at least she does after the hug
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| 16 JAN 2011 at 3:40pm |
Jarhead0331Colonel


Posts : 8733 Joined: 24 MAY 2006 Location: 0, Texas
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Smuckatelli
OT, Smuckette is doing okay with the Colt, she needs to work on her stance, she believes that the rifle is easier to shoot than the pistol.
So, all things being fair, Tomas & Anna want to start working with a pistol. Any recommendations on a 22LR pistol that they can operate?
Ruger 22/45 with a TacSol 4" barrel. Light as a feather.
[link]http://www.ruger.com/products/2245/index.html[/link]
[image]http://pic50.picturetrail.com/VOL488/1124764/2120947/296826184.jpg[/image]

"And They shall know no fear, for they are fear incarnate"

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| 16 JAN 2011 at 4:08pm |
SteelgraveColonel


Posts : 3322 Joined: 1 DEC 2006 Location: US
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Bismarck
Sorry guys; don'y let things get you down.
Things like this should remind me and all other happily married men how lucky we are. I've been married for 35 years and tend to take Angela for granted. That's bad and stupid. The woman is a godsend. I'll go hug her now.
Same here, Bis...married 31 years this month, but almost lost it all four years ago because we were taking each other for granted. Now we are in a great phase of life together, but kick my ass if I take her for granted again.
JH, Godbless, brother.
"When in danger, or in doubt.....run in circles, scream and shout!!!", author Herman Wouk.
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| 16 JAN 2011 at 4:55pm |
ActionJackColonel


Posts : 7885 Joined: 19 SEP 2005
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Jarhead0331
Originally Posted By Smuckatelli
OT, Smuckette is doing okay with the Colt, she needs to work on her stance, she believes that the rifle is easier to shoot than the pistol.
So, all things being fair, Tomas & Anna want to start working with a pistol. Any recommendations on a 22LR pistol that they can operate?
Ruger 22/45 with a TacSol 4" barrel. Light as a feather.
http://www.ruger.com/products/2245/index.html
[image]http://pic50.picturetrail.com/VOL488/1124764/2120947/296826184.jpg[/image]
That looks like the Mk III with a 4.5" fluted barrel
"Government is the great fiction through which everybody endeavors to live at the expense of everybody else." Frederic Bastiat 1801-1850

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| 16 JAN 2011 at 5:14pm |
Jarhead0331Colonel


Posts : 8733 Joined: 24 MAY 2006 Location: 0, Texas
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By ActionJack
That looks like the Mk III with a 4.5" fluted barrel
Really? Well, it's not...

"And They shall know no fear, for they are fear incarnate"

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| 16 JAN 2011 at 8:35pm |
ActionJackColonel


Posts : 7885 Joined: 19 SEP 2005
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Jarhead0331
Originally Posted By ActionJack
That looks like the Mk III with a 4.5" fluted barrel
Really? Well, it's not...
I don't want to argue about it but I own the the Mk II which is more than similar to the Mk III and I looked at gun genie for the 22/45. Maybe my eyes are gone so you tell me.
http://www.galleryofguns.com/genie/Default.aspx?item=10140&mfg=Ruger&mdl=All&cat=All&type=All&cal=22LR&fin=&sit=&zipcode=92107
"Government is the great fiction through which everybody endeavors to live at the expense of everybody else." Frederic Bastiat 1801-1850

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| 16 JAN 2011 at 10:30pm |
SmuckatelliColonel


Posts : 7965 Joined: 8 JUN 2004 Location: US
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Jarhead0331
Originally Posted By ActionJack
That looks like the Mk III with a 4.5" fluted barrel
Really? Well, it's not...
I see that it is not, the Tactical Solutions add on tells me this.
So JH, is this baby for sale?
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| 17 JAN 2011 at 5:43am |
ActionJackColonel


Posts : 7885 Joined: 19 SEP 2005
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Smuckatelli
Originally Posted By Jarhead0331
Originally Posted By ActionJack
That looks like the Mk III with a 4.5" fluted barrel
Really? Well, it's not...
I see that it is not, the Tactical Solutions add on tells me this.
So JH, is this baby for sale?
Ok, I just noticed that although both the Mk III and the 22/45 seem to use the same barrel/upper receiver the lower receivers are different. This photo seems to be the lower receiver of the Mk III. What appear to be a safety behind the trigger on the 22/45 is not there in the photo. The Mk III safety is higher and to the rear of the lower receiver. You can compare the two on the link to Davidson's.
"Government is the great fiction through which everybody endeavors to live at the expense of everybody else." Frederic Bastiat 1801-1850

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| 17 JAN 2011 at 7:26am |
SmuckatelliColonel


Posts : 7965 Joined: 8 JUN 2004 Location: US
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By ActionJack
The Mk III safety is higher and to the rear of the lower receiver. You can compare the two on the link to Davidson's.
No problem...just assume the position []
I was asking for something that Tomas could use and operate
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| 17 JAN 2011 at 1:39pm |
Jarhead0331Colonel


Posts : 8733 Joined: 24 MAY 2006 Location: 0, Texas
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Smuckatelli
So JH, is this baby for sale?
Its actually a little too much gun for Tomas. The barrel will cost you. A stock 10/45 will do. You may also want to look at the Browning Buckmark...Relatively affordable and ready to go out of the box.
[image]http://www.browning.com/products/catalog/images/images-by-title-name/Buck-Mark-Standard-URX-MID-051407-m.jpg[/image]

"And They shall know no fear, for they are fear incarnate"

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| 17 JAN 2011 at 2:15pm |
ActionJackColonel


Posts : 7885 Joined: 19 SEP 2005
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Jarhead0331
Originally Posted By Smuckatelli
So JH, is this baby for sale?
Its actually a little too much gun for Tomas. The barrel will cost you. A stock 10/45 will do. You may also want to look at the Browning Buckmark...Relatively affordable and ready to go out of the box.
[image]http://www.browning.com/products/catalog/images/images-by-title-name/Buck-Mark-Standard-URX-MID-051407-m.jpg[/image]
Who makes those stocks?
"Government is the great fiction through which everybody endeavors to live at the expense of everybody else." Frederic Bastiat 1801-1850

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| 17 JAN 2011 at 3:52pm |
Jointops06Commander


Posts : 2653 Joined: 20 JUL 2004
Status : Offline | Originally Posted By Jarhead0331
Originally Posted By Smuckatelli
So JH, is this baby for sale?
Its actually a little too much gun for Tomas. The barrel will cost you. A stock 10/45 will do. You may also want to look at the Browning Buckmark...Relatively affordable and ready to go out of the box.
[image]http://www.browning.com/products/catalog/images/images-by-title-name/Buck-Mark-Standard-URX-MID-051407-m.jpg[/image]
Can I say that is a cracking looking pistol. Had a look at the range on their website and any model there would make a young man very happy. If only in the UK.
That's one of the remarkable things about life. It's never so bad that it can't get worse. Then again quietly confident but what of? The secret of life is honesty and fair dealing. If you can fake that, you've got it made.

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| 17 JAN 2011 at 5:01pm |
EyebiterCommander


Posts : 1232 Joined: 28 DEC 2004
Status : Offline | High Standard makes some decent .22lr target pistols, as an alternative to the Browning or Ruger.
http://www.highstandard...cts/weapons.html#pistols
Buy your share of freedom... today!
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