What are the best sex board games? Tabletop games about sex are far more than just a joke gift; the really good ones can rock your world – so I’ve collected my top choices in this guide. Each game has been carefully selected, from experience, by me and the Wargamer team – so I’m not just teasing you when I say these are the hottest games to try.
As a sexologist and world-renowned sex and relationships expert, I’ve helped many couples spice up their love lives by recommending great sex dice, sex cards, and sex board games. If you’d rather connect with your partner over the tabletop rather than the mattress-top, do check out our other guide to the best board games for couples.
For now, these are my top 13 steamy board games to try – ranging from the vanilla to the more adventurous, throwing in some all-time classics and highlighting a few newbies on the scene.
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Monogamy
The most popular sex board game.
Players | 2 |
Play time | 1 hour |
- Extensive foreplay tasks and questions
- Good for long sessions
- Easy instructions
- A bit dated
- Heterosexual focus
- Maybe a little tame
I first encountered Monogamy: the board game over ten years ago, and since then many other sex board games have come and gone, yet this one has survived the test of time, and is still being sold. Consisting of a mixture of counters, die, cards, and a board with spaces, it’s designed for 2 players and is aimed at heterosexual couples – but most of the cards and tasks can be adapted for any sexual orientation.
Produced by specialist sex and relationships game publisher Creative Conceptions, Monogamy is one of the longer sex board games out there, with the aim for you to try new forms of foreplay while also learning to communicate intimacy with your partner.
As you go around the board, you’ll land on various spaces that indicate different actions; some may suggest giving your partner a massage, others may allocate a time for you to perform a strip tease. The further you get into the game, the hotter it becomes, with each turn round the board making the erotic suggestions steamier.
It’s a pleasurable play, however it can require some extra props, such as tie and tease items and (naturally) food. Take my advice: grab some whipped cream before you play and put the cheese puffs down!
Kinky Confessions card game
The best intimacy building game.
Players | 2+ |
Play time | 30-45 minutes |
- Multiple ways to play
- Great for communication
- Helps reduce sexual boredom
- Some cards won’t suit everyone
When it comes to kink, knowing where to start with a partner can feel like unknown territory. The Lovehoney Oh! Confessions card game has you and a partner take turns asking a selection of ‘either/or’ questions. If you decide you can’t answer a question, you can select to perform a forfeit suggested on the forfeit card (or create one between yourselves).
It’s designed to be played in pairs, but it could work just as well for a polycule of up to 5 individuals. Each person draws up to 10 cards, and you take it in turns to ask the question and answer them.
The game is fairly quick, but in my experience it’s really playful and lively. It allowed me to gain a better understanding of my partner’s erotic likes and dislikes, and we got a kick out of exploring shared sex memories from our past, while exploring topics that appeared on the cards. The deck is great for working out power dynamics and boundaries in your relationship, whilst keeping things sexy and casual.
Lovehoney Foreplay Sex Dice
The best sex board game for a quickie.
Players | 2+ |
Play time | 20 minutes |
- Easy to follow
- Quick to play
- Playful and easy-going
- Can feel basic
Let’s get real; when life gets busy, foreplay gets forgotten – but it needn’t be! The Oh! Foreplay Sex Dice are aimed at helping you explore foreplay more. Rolling the purple action die, together with either the light pink romantic die or the dark pink erotic die, helps you come up with a wide range of ways to explore foreplay with a partner. Take it in turns to roll two of the dice, and perform the combination of tasks on your lover.
I found the combinations fun to explore. The dice roll nicely out of your hand and settle on uneven surfaces nicely meaning they can be used on bedding. Some of the combinations require a little creative thinking – like “suck” + “stomach” – and for others we ended up using our own interpretations; “blow” + “penis” was a particularly memorable combo.
The “?” side of the dice let our imaginations kick in more, allowing us to ‘choose our own adventure’ a little bit. These dice are good fun, and can be used progressively – starting off with the romantic dice and then moving up to the erotic dice – which is a great option if you’re new to learning what you and your partner like in the bedroom.
The biggest downsides are only that the purple die can be hard to read, and some of the actions are a bit similar to one another.
The Big Oh!
The best foreplay board game.
Players | 2 |
Play time | 1 hour |
- Lots of activities
- Tasks for post-game play
- Sexy blindfold and tickler included
- Some later tasks can be confusing
A proper board game, The Big Oh! sees you spiral down a pathway of exciting foreplay and intimacy building activities. Three successive levels of intensity allow you to build up arousal and desire over time, using cleverly paced game design to get you and your partner progressively more hot and bothered during an hour of play. The game comes with two counters, 3 dice, several sets of activity and question cards, and a blindfold and tickler.
As you land on the different squares, you’ll either take a card with sexy questions or tasks related to your current level, or explore each other’s bodies with the sex dice, blindfold, or tickler. Level one allows for light foreplay and sensual massage; level two has soft genital stimulation and mild kink; and level three is more focused on mutual masturbation and oral sex. There are bonus cards for use after the game ends.
I liked this game a lot, as it slowed me and my partner down and allowed us to revisit ways of pleasuring each other we had forgotten. It proved that things between us had got hotter, and we were able to add our own flare to the milder actions, reigniting playfulness. We still need to find where we put some of the bonus card packs, as one pack was lost in all the excitement.
Oral Fun
The best oral sex board game.
Players | 2 |
Play time | 45 minutes |
- Quick play, considering the tasks
- Gives new ways to explore oral
- Requires external props
- Encourages drinking
Oral sex is rising in popularity, particularly as we’re starting to see more people from different gender and sexuality backgrounds enjoying it in movies and TV. Yet, even with oral sex becoming more normalised, there’s still very little out there on how to mix it up. This is where the Oral Fun board game can help!
The game involves rolling a dice to move along a board of oral delights. You race to the finish line, which is 69 – I’ll allow you to interpret that into your gameplay however you want. Each square offers a new idea on how to explore oral sex, from kissing an area of your partner, to introducing food, to adding in tie-and-tease play as you go down on each other. There’s also a set of trivia cards included, giving an extra opportunity to get to know your partner’s erotic tastes further.
The game requires you to have some items on hand, such as a blindfold, food, and ice cubes. The biggest downfall of the game is that it’s evidently aimed at heterosexual couples – but this could be adapted easily for anyone to take part and play.
Talk Dirty Playing Cards
The best couples communication game.
Players | 2+ |
Play time | 25 minutes |
- Helps communication skills
- Confidence building
- Offers kinky inspiration
- Not fun if you’re too shy
Sex is all about exciting all of our senses, experiencing delight through touch, taste, smell, visuals, and – of course – sound. Yet freely communicating and making sounds during sex can be the hardest skill to develop with a partner. Even if you’ve had years of keeping hush in the bedroom, the Talk Dirty Playing Cards can help you become vocal – whether that’s helping you talk about your sexual likes and dislikes, or giving yourself permission to let go and groan. The card game comes with additional tips on how to talk dirty.
The deck is based on traditional playing cards, allowing you a few options to play. The first has the goal of collecting a set of 4 of the same number card. Once a player has a set, you can act out the dirty talk questions. The second way to play is similar to the card game blackjack, which allows for a longer game.
The game is light and entertaining to play, and I enjoyed the varied interactions it encouraged between me and my partner. We even saved a few cards to use later in the week to continue the fun!
Sexopoly
The best sex party board game.
Players | 2-8 |
Play time | 2 hours |
- The ultimate sexy icebreaker
- Super casual choice for sex parties
- Not inherently super erotic
- Doesn’t enhance your sex life per se
Everyone’s heard of the classic board game Monopoly. This X-rated version, Sexopoly, shares many of the same gameplay elements, but swaps the theme from property development to adult entertainment, creating a light-hearted sex board game that’s more about sharing and having fun than directly instigating sex.
Sexopoly is designed to be played with up to 8 players, with the aim of the game being to build the most successful adult empire. As you work your way around the monopoly-style board, you’ll buy up adult entertainment businesses with ‘Bank of Sexopoly’ dollar notes and start raking in the cash from your XXX empire.
This adult game is different to other sex board games, as it’s not intended to enhance your sex life exactly – rather, it gives you a chance to share your sex knowledge, learn some fun sex education facts, and get competitive with close friends or partners at an adult party.
There’s even a ‘Jail’ space equivalent, which the designers aptly renamed the dungeon. There are a few slightly erotic task squares, but these are focused on receiving an optional free massage, or giving a lap dance. One to play with a sex-positive group of friends or party guests, rather than necessarily in a dedicated sex session with a partner.
Sex Marks The Spot
The best game for realizing your sex fantasy.
Players | 2 |
Play time | 1 hour+ |
- Bouncy, spontaneous gameplay
- Really satisfying to win
- Relies a lot on chance
- Could be quick – or take hours
At a glance, this grid-style game looks similar to classics like Chess or Battleships – and you will indeed be moving your piece across the board. But victory in Sex Marks the Spot looks a little different: at the start of the game, each player secretly writes down their ultimate fantasy on a piece of paper, and that becomes their ultimate prize if they win.
Each turn, you’ll roll two numbered dice – one red, one blue – to determine a random space on the grid to move to. Each square has a different action for you and your partner to explore, with some linking to specific cards that take you, er, deeper. The cards can vary from erotic suggestions to intimate questions. With up to 180 different challenges to try, the game can continue for hours if you desire.
Each time you land on the X square, you make a mark on your secret sheet – and, once you’ve collected six, you unlock your final fantasy. This element of randomness works fantastically – anticipation builds as players race to get six Xs, but all the while you’ll be exploring the game’s other sexy tasks, getting more and more in the mood.
There’s a welcome element of customization here, too – there are ‘Sex it up’ cards to add in if you want to make things steamier, or you can use a ‘Sexcuse me’ card if there’s a challenge you’d prefer to skip.
Sex!!!
The best LGBTQ+ sex board game.
Players | 2+ |
Play time | 1 hour |
- Great for multiple players
- Inclusive of different relationships and sexualities
- Endgame sex positions won’t suit everyone
- Spinner can get stuck
A real treasure, Sex!!! is one of the very few successful and popular sex board games that’s specifically intended for groups of multiple people looking to up their foreplay. Couples, throuples, or polycules – everyone can get involved in this one.
Each square is a different colour with a different action. You spin the wheel to work out which colour to move to and then perform the action with your lovers. The actions range from massage or removing a piece of clothing, to kissing and dirty talk, to fingering and oral – with the aim always to keep building up more and more foreplay among the group.
The end of the game the winner can spin the wheel again which will land on a suggested sex position. If you’re playing with more than one partner, you can either all stop then and there and enjoy sex together, or you can go off in pairs, leaving the other pair to continue until one of them finishes the game. In Sex!!! everyone’s a winner, and – refreshingly – most of the actions are universal and can be played by various sexualities, a real selling point in a field containing many, many overly heteronormative products.
Weekend in Bed bondage game
The best beginner BDSM game.
Players | 2 |
Play time | 45 minutes |
- Includes all the gear you need
- Perfect introduction to kink
- A little tame for the experienced
- Very heterosexual focused
It’s fair to say more value went into the equipment than the game here, but the Weekend in Bed Bondage kit still has some excellent play in it, and certainly makes travelling away for the weekend more adventurous! Perfect for those looking to try out BDSM for the first time, the kit contains eight items which all fit into a satin travel bag – a blindfold, massage candle, spanking paddle, and flogger – all of which are designed to be used with the sex dice and packs of erotic sex cards that make up the game.
There are two card packs: one giving kinky scenes for you to act out in the form of roleplay, and the other offering sexy activity ideas. You use the dice to pick who’ll play what role, and who performs the action on the card. It’s worth noting the dice “his” or “her” on each side, meaning this game is intended for heterosexual couples.
The tabletop gameplay may be a bit basic, but this kit is a great investment for those looking to explore their power dynamics in the bedroom, while learning different ways to mix up sensual and consensual sadomasochism. It’s an affordable little package, with some amazing suggestions for enhancing your sex life.
Fondle
Sexy Twister
Players | 2-4 |
Play time | 15-30 |
- Hands on fun.
- So much better than Twister.
- More fun with groups.
- Who’s going to spin the spinner?
- The young and sprightly will enjoy this the most.
Fondle is like adult Twister that doesn’t try to hide how horny it is: this is a game about touching, groping, and stroking all the other players, because oh no the spinner said you have to!
Just like Twister, someone on the sidelines will spin a big spinner to determine what he other players do with their hands and feet. While some results will see players stretching to get their hands and feet out all over the mat, just as often players will be asked to put their hands onto one another.
The spinner even has a “fondle” wildcard result, which gives the current player a forfeit. Taking a drink, or stripping off an item of clothing, are classics!
This doesn’t fix all the problems with adult Twister: everyone has to be happy being groped by all the other players, the spinner can sometimes produce boring results several times in a row, and this isn’t a great game if you’re getting back pain! But if you were thinking of bringing Twister to a sexy party, check out Fondle instead.
Truth or Dare for couples
The funniest sex board game.
Players | 2 |
Play time | 20 minutes |
- Produces light, fun, sexy chats
- Cheap and portable
- More humorous than erotic
No longer is this merely a game for teens experiencing their first romantic tension: Truth or Dare for couples adapts the party classic into a mildly steamy and consistently fun conversation game for two.
Inviting your beau upstairs for coffee? Perhaps a saucy truth will put you in the mood – by all means try some of our 150+ tried and tested spicy truth or dare questions to get you started.
Or – if the Amazon reviews are anything to go by – perhaps not so much sauce after all. Many couples praised Truth or Dare for Couples for having interesting ‘truths’ and funny ‘dares’, but there’s a distinct lack of sex-appeal going on in this game.
If you’re after a night of laughs with your love, this may be the game for you; if you were hoping for something more in the style of strip poker, you might want to carry on with the guide
Bedroom Battle
The most original sex board game.
Players | 2 |
Play time | 20 minutes+ |
- Strong game design
- LGBTQ+ friendly
- Cartoony style may be a turn-off
Arguably, Bedroom Battle is the most board-game-like board game on this list. It’s not ripping off an existing classic, and it has its own rules, design, and components. Luckily for those of you still looking to get down to business quickly, though, playing a game of bedroom battle is as simple as it is sexy.
The game is designed for two players. At the start of a round, players draw a reward card with three intimate actions listed. You and your opponent then take it in turns to play cards, with the goal of ending the round with the highest ‘sexiness’ rating. The winner gets to pick an action from the reward card, and the loser performs it. Simple!
Unlike some of the other games on this list, Bedroom Battle boasts about its inclusivity as well as its sex positivity. “It doesn’t matter if you’re straight, gay, or lesbian”, says the game’s box, “everyone can play”. Bedroom Battle even has expansion packs – just in case you wore out the first deck of cards.
Consentacle
Build a silent connection
Players | 2 |
Play time | 10-40 minutes |
- Genuinely clever gameplay
- SFW enough to bring out in public
- Print version is OOP, but a print and play version is available
- Sex-themed, but not really foreplay
Consentacle is a card game with an out-there premise: you and your partner are trying to help a human and an alien who don’t share a language have a mutually satisfying sexual encounter. Sounds wacky, but it’s actually a set-up for a game that’s all about trust, consent, and silent communication. It won’t get you in the mood, but it may help you and your partner build a deeper connection.
This is quite a “gamey” game. The different actions you take in the game can add to a pool of mutual trust points, or spend those points to generate “satisfaction” for your character. You’ll find out at the end of the game how well you’ve succeeded – is one of the character’s satisfied, but the other unfulfilled? Was it a wash for both of them? Or did they make sparks fly?
Each turn, both players pick a card for the action that their character will try out – things like gaze, bite, lick, release, and so on. Then you’ll reveal them at the same time, and if both players’ cards pair up, they’ll have a much greater effect. So the best way to ensure the human and the alien both get their rocks off, is to get in sync with your real life partner.
There are great recommendations about how you can make communicating during the game more challenging, until eventually you’re picking cards in silence, wearing shades, like two poker aces. And it’s hard not to talk about your own likes and dislikes whenever you play one of these gorgeously illustrated cards.
The Dick Sits
Break the ice at a sex party
Players | 2-8 |
Play time | 15-30 |
- Hilarious
- Great for big groups
- Adorable little dicks
- Very phallocentric
- Sex-themed, not sex-y
If you’re in the fun position of going to sex parties, you’ll know that sometimes people need to relax before they can get frisky – but you don’t want that warm-up activity to put people’s minds too far off topic. The Dick Sits will have everyone laughing and talking filth, ready for you to bring out one of the other games on this list and really get the fun started.
It’s a simple and very, very silly game. Each player takes on the role of a hungry butt, eager to sit on as many dicks as possible and stretch as wide as possible. There’s a whole card pack of peckers, each illustrated with a cute cartoon penis that is sure to raise a laugh – particularly if you spot any resemblances…
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